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Thursday, July 19, 2007

"Jangan bikin malu"

Wat kind of line is that? He seems to think I am always up to no good. As always never good enough. 13 missed calls and such a message. I give up. I give up trying to prove that I'm good enough, and I will just put up with it.

Have you ever asked how's my life? Have you ever asked am I happy or if things are ok with me, my work, etc? Have you ever tried to find out about me, my work, my friends, what I have been doing and how I have been doing instead of just thinking badly of me? Maybe you should try having an adult-to-adult talk instead of just blasting at me or having negatives thoughts about me. Even for the trip, I made the effort instead of waiting to be told, and instead of advising or reminding nicely, you lashed at me. I am afterall an adult already. I would love to be talked to like an adult. Have I ever given you so much trouble, screwed up my education, acted like an irrational person or even behaved like someone who has never given a thought about my future and my life? Don't you trust me?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Totally understand babe...
Juz b patient and de truth will prevail...

Anonymous said...

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
Forgive them anyway.

If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
Succeed anyway.

If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
Be honest and frank anyway.

What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
Build anyway.

If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
Do good anyway.

Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough.
Give the world the best you've got anyway.

You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
It was never between you and them anyway.

* * * * *
I know it hurts when people say unkind things to you, especially ones that you love and respect. Patience my dear, patience. *Hugs*

nurlion said...

our intentions can be easily misunderstood. it's not easy to please everyone. sometimes you even have to forgo your own dreams and wants.... whether that's worthwhile or not....well may Allah repay all the kind intentions.