Strengths and Weaknesses

My manager asked me what are my strengths or what do I think are my strengths... I paused.... and shrugged my shoulders. Maybe, one of it is that I get along quite easily with people? Then another pause. I dunno lah... what are my strengths, I asked him back. He proceeded to ask what are my weaknesses, and I rambled what I thought or knew were my weaknesses. He chided me and said that I was very "focused" on my weaknesses that I ended up "emphasizing" them and they became more entrenched in me, but I am not even certain what my strengths were that I do not have them to work on. He's right yah, so I am on a mission to define me - in my strengths. So your feedback would definitely help, since sometimes people outside see you better than you yourself. At least they can see you from different perspectives. And I myself must analyse myself from outside so that I can help me in defining me.

InsyaAllah I will be a better person.