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Wednesday, May 10, 2006

In conclusion...

Finished reading that book, such a sad ending...

Well, in the end the hubby found out and she explained to him, they got divorced, while she planned her other wedding. But... her fiance suddenly said that he wasn't ready to settle down (those kind of creep who just wanted to have fun, and got tired of relationships easily). She wanted to win her husband back but, he found another lady, whom at first she was happy that it was because of her that her husband got to know her. So she didn't want to rob her husband of his new happiness, she just kept mum about her break-up.
In the end, she got no one..

So... if it happens to me, as in I met someone else or and ex-flame, while I am in a relationship, an think that I should be with that person instead, I supposed I would re-assess my current relationship (you know when you are met with a different thing, you seem to think that that new something is better, like the saying, the grass is greener on the other side, or so you think). Of course, it is not as easy as it sounds when you let your heart rule your mind... You need to sit down and THINK. Sometimes, you need more than just to think, you need reassurance and you need to weigh it all out. And then, I would discuss with that person I am currently with, to tell him what is bothering me about our relationship. Sometimes they don't get it until too late. Like in the story, the husband never bothered to do anything extra or listened to her. It was work, and TV, and all the other things... Until at the end of the story, he actually bought her a ticket to Italy, where she had always been bugging him to bring her and he apologised for not listening, and promised not to make that mistake with his next relationship. But it will all work out, if you are meant to be together...

But moral of the story...
You may think that the grass is greener on the other side, but the grass is already green over your side, take care of it and give it fertiliser and water to improve it. Unless, the patch is already bald, and there is nothing to work with, then move on...
The touching thing in the story is that her best friends stick by her, no matter how stupid the the things she wants to do. They did offer advice though, but she just refused to take them and still, they stick by...

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