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Wednesday, May 24, 2006

Guys, listen out...

Belief #1:
She will never be satisfied.

Truth:
Women are always looking for ways to make things better. Don't take her suggestions as complaints or criticisms, but as her desire to make the relationship or situation the best it can be.

Belief #2:
A strong and confident woman doesn't need a man to take care of her.

Truth:
Everyone loves to be taken care of and to feel needed. Even if a woman can fix things around the house or change the oil in her car, she will still ask for your help so she can feel your strength, support and protection. Don't ever stop asking, "What can I do for you?" because it shows her you care.

Belief #3:
Women only want to control men.

Truth:
It's not about control, it's about love. When a woman sees a man hurting, struggling, or overwhelmed, her goal is to help not control. Let her give you a helping hand.

Belief #4:
Keeping a woman requires a lot of hard work, time and money.

Truth:
A serious relationship requires time and effort to cultivate it. You shouldn't look at it as a burden. She will reciprocate the effort you put in.

Belief #5:
You can't lie to a woman.

Truth:
Women are truly capable of picking up moods and attitudes and can easily read body language and facial expressions. Athough you may think that you have gotten away with a great lie, she is either letting it slide because she wants to keep the peace or she is lying to herself because she is afraid of the truth.
Note: That is why mum seems to know everything...

Belief #6:
Women are emotional.

Truth:
Women don't hide their feelings. They articulate what's going on in their minds. There's nothing wrong with emotions - we all have them. Being in touch with their emotions causes women to be sensitive and caring and that's why men love them.

1 comment:

Sananda said...

Hi Ain, very useful insight on womanhood.. so what do you thing man actually mean when they say certain things... does a yes mean a no or a yes or maybe??