So when is it fair?

Guilty. I realised why I dun really have much to say in my blog last week. Not been doing enough soul-searching or thinking. Been running away from myself.

Anyway when you are faced with a decision to make in which either way you will be unfair to ppl, what do you do? What should you do? Follow your heart? Or follow your head? Should the decision be selfish or selfless. For my own happiness? Or for others? To move on or be stuck? As much as I try to be selfish, I just cant bring myself to hurt ppl. It's never my intention to want to hurt. But now, either way I will still cause hurt. So how? I feel like I am stuck. I just want to bare it all but how? In doing so, I will hurt ppl. In the end I keep everything to myself.

Sometimes, you are so used to having ppl around that you just take the situation for granted, that it will always be that way. But things happen and changes the whole dynamics of it all. Its hard to explain.